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Pressure Always Keeps Getting Wesser- Just Be True to Your Journey

Everyone has that one person they grew up with, the one who somehow had their whole life figured out as soon as they could string a sentence together. My God, it’s infuriating. And before you judge me, I’m writing this with the purest of intentions. It’s just that my mind, in all its brilliance, loves to remind me that they don’t have two heads or a special brain. If they can do it, why can’t I? What’s my excuse? What’s holding me back? Is it me? Did I miss the signs, the opportunities, the magic formula? Because sometimes, it feels like I’ve fallen short, like I’m just running in circles while everyone else seems to be sprinting to the finish line. It’s hard not to feel that weight of comparison. It’s maddening. The feeling of being behind. It stings. And the worst part? The voice inside that tells me it’s my fault, that I’ve missed opportunities, that I should’ve done better, done more. There’s nothing more frustrating than comparing where you are to where you think you should be, an...
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Finding the Courage to Start Over: Why I Keep Showing Up

I feel like I’m failing. Not in a dramatic, everything’s-falling-apart way, but in that quiet, unsettling way where you know you’re not where you should be. Everywhere I look, people are thriving, succeeding in spaces I’ve only dreamed of stepping into, and I can’t help but wonder— what’s wrong with me? Success feels so close for everyone else, but for me, it’s like staring at a locked door without the key. It’s a heavy feeling. Sometimes, it feels like a huge weight on my chest, and I just want to give up, throw my hands in the air and let it all go. Funny enough, if you asked me what my field is, I wouldn’t even know how to answer. That makes it even harder, doesn’t it?   But even in all this confusion, there’s this tiny voice that never stops nudging me: Moyo, you can’t stop. Do something, no matter how little . That voice? I’ve grown to appreciate it. It’s a reminder of the future I promised myself, the future I still want. The baby girl lifestyle, the independent boss l...
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No more Excuses: My first step into Blogging.

I know I should be writing, but what do I write about? This has been my struggle for over two years now. Well up until a few hours ago, when I decided to start this blog. Honestly, I feel it’s more for myself than for you, but if it resonates with you or you feel you can relate in any way, you’re welcome to sit with me and read away.   Here’s the thing: most times when we start something, often with so much zeal and fire, somewhere along the way, we just stop. And even with the constant nagging at the back of our heads, we totally give it up. I’ve often wondered why.   I don’t think I’ve cracked the code, but I think I’ve stumbled upon a cheat: remind myself why I started. I tried it, and it worked. At least for a while.  The “why” is what drives the “what,” which then goes on to shape the “how.” And together, these make up the success stories we admire today. So when I feel lost or stuck, I go back to my “why.” It helps me reconnect with the spark I had at the ...
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